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Guys think they get us, but…
I had an interesting conversation with a model, who ruled
the ramp 10 years ago. He used to be married, but there were reports last year
that he was dating a model and his marriage was in trouble. I have known this
Punjabi boy for a few years and it’s always fun to spend an evening with him.
We were at a fancy nightclub in Bandra and I learnt that guys think they know a
lot about women from the way we walk, dress and wear our hair! It all began when
a girl in her mid-30’s passed by, wearing snug jeans. She was plump and had
curly, waist-length hair. We both looked at her, and my friend said, “She must
be really hot in bed.” I asked him how he had reached that conclusion.
He: Women with
curly hair are highly sexed.
Me: And how do
you know that this is her natural hair? She could have had a perm!
He: (Looking
sheepish) Look at way she walked.
Me: Do women have
different styles of walking?
He: You won’t
understand. Guys know this stuff.
Me: Interesting. What
else do guys think they know about us?
He: We get clues
from everything- the way you talk, the language you use, the way you dress.
Me: How can you
sit in judgment? It’s like saying a girl who dresses demurely is demure and a
girl in a dress that shows cleavage is a slut. It’s possible that the demurely
dressed girl has had more affairs than someone, who wears a short dress. That’s
so stupid, not to mention, unfair to peg people.
He: It’s a guy
thing.
Me: (Irritated)
Well, it’s a dumb thing. I recently read a book which a cop says that women
with dark circles are horny. Really now! She could be an insomniac, or having a
vitamin deficiency. Just because she has dark circles doesn’t mean she’s up for
having sex like that.
He: calm down.
Guys talk like that.
Me: Not the men I
interact with. Maybe men from that small town you hail from think like that.
Metrosexual men from cities don’t. Just because I used the ‘F word’ doesn’t
make me a whore. You and your friends need to get your head out of the gutter.
He: One innocent
comment started this tirade. Let’s talk about something else.
Me: I don’t want
to. Not after knowing that you are probably judging me every second. I’m
leaving.
I left. We’ll eventually go back to being buddies. Most days
I would’ve ignored his comment. I mean, who cares what some random guy thinks
about you?
P.S.- read in Times of India......... I liked it so shared with you people.....
ye bahut purana hai...magar ittefaq se maine bhi ye padha hai...
ReplyDeletei used to read this column earlier...however left reading it after i felt in the next issue that it was all written to provide the reader just a sensuous touch of a girl feelings...n deep in my heart some where, i feel...girls r much much more than the sensuous preview of her generated in a male mind.
A girl is more regarded by me, for her capability by which she can make me feel comfortable,cared and over all understood.
Yes, of course being a boy, i too make some propositions of how a girl would be, by the way she dress, she carries herself and moreover how she smiles, when she is with others(girl frens or boy frens doesnt matters much). But more of these is based upon how she is with herself, how much she knows what she want and how much she can give/receive is what i am really bothered about whenever i meet or be with a girl.
my studies and job has taken me to places with different cultures, making me meet different people, come close to them, be a part of them and make them a part of mine. so many people (many of them being the fair sex). All of a different nature, with a different dream, with a different cause to be-friend me.
I cannot sort any one out as per a distinct criteria that i would have devised. not because none of them had anything in similar, but because all of them had a unique way of loving me, caring for me and making me feel special. So are girls. they may share some common problems, some common emotional break down kind of feeling, and above all some common demands (not of gifts, but of love and care), but they are all different, while showering upon u torrents of love and care.
they are not like boys, who do the conventional PDA or keep expressing their love as per the bookish and 'moviesh' descriptions. Girls are way ahead. They do it in their own way. not to the satisfaction of their heart, but for the innate satiation of our desires...
Sorry, i am, that i have not been able to give in return what all of u have expected from me...but please know that i am much grateful a person than what i used to be when i was with u...
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